Doing what I love, and loving what I do
Well, I did it. I finally made a facebook page for My Stained Apron.
It only took me.. a few years. 🙂 Technology is not my strong point, as you can probably guess from the eye-catching “design” of my site.
You can find me on facebook here, and I’ll be sure to keep it updated with new posts and ideas, and feel free to let me know if you have any recipe requests as well! I love a challenge! 🙂
Well, my kitchen has officially been traumatized. And I might add that this picture was taken after my sweet hubby did a lot of the dishes.
We had a wonderful Easter, with family and one of my dearest friends as well.
So I’ll be spending most of the day getting the kitchen back in order and trying to figure out wordpress. After a few hundred spam comments a day I gave in and turned the comments off. I love hearing feedback, but… not so much when it’s 163 comments from a spammer. So bare with me as I try to get things easier to navigate, and if you can’t find an older recipe, about 50 were lost in the transfer to wordpress, and I’ll be getting them back on within a couple days. Thanks for being understanding!
So I finally made the switch over to wordpress… only to realize that I have NO IDEA what I’m doing. : )
It’s kind of humorous that I blog since I seem to be so naive when it comes to this kind of thing. I have never even texted or tweeted or twittered or whatever you call that. And I’m probably in a very small category of thirty-something year olds that can say that.
So… bear with me while I try to figure all this out and make the site more user-friendly. Fingers crossed!
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I am remiss. It’s the month of May, and I had so many plans for April.
April is Autism Awareness Month, and as many of you know, my eldest daughter Amelia is autistic.
There is something else important about April. It’s Easter. The day we celebrate the resurrection of Christ.
I belong to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, (which means I’m a Mormon) ; )
I love Easter. We celebrate new life, hope, and focus on our belief and faith in eternal life and families.
On Easter I was thinking alot about our journey with Amelia, and the challenges we’ve faced.
But my mind kept going back to my belief and faith that the day will come when I will see my daughter free from the challenges she faces. Some may look at her now and not realize that she is autistic. There is no scarlet letter on her back, no obvious physical deformity, no sign she carries. That can make situations difficult at times. There are many occasions when someone will assume she is “acting out” or being “difficult”, not realizing that she is just exhibiting normal behavior for an autistic child.
For example, one day awhile back, we were in Costco waiting in line and Amelia layed down on the concrete floor. (In a very over-stimulating environment she just wanted to lay on the cool concrete floor and close her eyes and block things out a bit). I quickly started to get her up but in those few seconds a man in the next line got noticeably annoyed and was glaring at her. (I might add that she wasn’t in his way even.) I should also add that Amelia noticed this negative look and stance and seemed more bothered by it.
As I got her up I turned to him and said “she’s not misbehaving, she’s autistic”.
In a snap his demeanor changes and he said “oh. sorry.” He seemed a bit ashamed and looked away.
Now, I don’t believe autism gives a free ride on bad behavior. We work VERY hard and diligently with Amelia so she will learn by practice appropriate ways to act in home and in public. But that takes ALOT of time and practice to master. I can only hope that by the time she’s an adult I can breathe a little easier when we have outings.
I have been surprised at times when someone has told me that they’ve never met or seen an autistic child or adult. Really? The numbers are about 1 in 100 now, so it’s a little hard to believe. And my standard question I then ask is “when is that last time you saw a child act out in a grocery store?”
The odds are, it was the last time you there. And the odds are, on more than one occasion, one of those kids has autism.
So here is my challenge to you. Whoever you are. Where ever you are. For the month of May, every time you go to a store or public place, and feel the urge to be annoyed at someone in your way ask yourself: “what if?”
What if this person just needs some understanding, some space, or what if I just assume the best?
So quickly we assume the worst in others. What if we assume the best?
What if the mother trying to no avail to calm the screaming child is doing her best? And what if that child screams EVERY time they go into a store? At what point does she need to just plug thru it and get the groceries? (Amelia may not have ever done it to this extreme, but I have met other families with autistic kids that face this challenge). Amelia makes funny noises in stores alot and pulls on my hand quite fiercely, we do get alot of looks for this but we are quite used to it.
I guess what I’m saying is maybe instead of jumping to assumptions we should all take a lesson from Christ and be more kind. Instead of glaring at a mother who obviously has her hands full loading groceries and an uncooperative child, why not offer to take her cart back for her? Instead of looking away from someone with an obvious disability, why not smile? Even muster up a cheerful hello?
I suppose I believe, like Anne Frank, that at heart most people really are good. And I want to be one of those people. Amelia needs more of those people, we all do.
I for some insane reason decided I should remodel our kitchen. While my hubby is at work.
With 2 children. With an autistic child.
Wish me luck! I blame my craziness on the excitement of double wall ovens… a cook top….more storage for my plethora of gadgets…non-green counter tops…you get the idea : )
Oh, and want a sneak peak at my new kitchen?! Just check out the picture below…
